I Whip My Hair Back and Forth!

Before I took off for the holidays, I had the pleasure of photographing a Sweet 16 Birthday Party in Wilmington, Delaware.  Beyond being able to capture the normal birthday events, like cutting the cake and food, this event had the added benefit of allowing me to take a trip down memory lane as I watched the teenagers dance to all the latest songs and then “whip their hair back and forth.”  To the latter point, I came to one conclusion, the goal of that song is to make young folks lose a few brain cells or so, and my reason for saying this is that you cannot continue to whip your head back and forth for the entire song without getting dizzy.  As a matter of fact, after the chorus played through a couple of times, I noticed that these teens were not able to whip their heads back and forth for the remaining choruses.  I think the song is catchy and cute, but perhaps the video should have a disclaimer about not trying this at home!  That may be a bit much, but you get my point.  Anyway, the event was fun to capture, and I have included select images below.

By the way, if you see something you like, please leave a comment!

Signed Poster

Serving up the food

The Birthday Girl

Dancing with Dad

Cutting the Cake

Kisses from Mom

Posing with Mom

Dancing with the Girls

whip my hair back and forth

Dancing with the Ladies

A Beyonce Move

Stuck

Graced with Elegance, Full of Life

A few weeks ago, we threw a surprise 50th Birthday Party for my mom, and miraculously, we were able to keep it a secret from her.  Now she did have a few suspicions that something was up, but she did not have any clue that the event she was going to one month before her birthday was actually to celebrate her birthday!  Ingenious!  And it was all my dad’s idea.  The rest of the details worked out well because I was in the area that weekend for a wedding, and my dad’s job had a “formal event to welcome people from another country.”  Over the years, my mom has seen images I’ve taken from other people’s surprise birthday parties, but I don’t think she ever imagined being caught “surprised” at the door.

This project was especially exciting for me because it presented an opportunity to incorporate photographs that I’d previously taken of my mom into graphics design projects.  From the invitation that I designed to the note cards used at the event for people to write their reflections and birthday wishes to mom to the thank you cards that she sent out after the event, I used quality photographs from recent years to bring a cohesive, elegant experience for our guests and the Birthday Girl!

When all was said and done, we might have gone over the top with how we celebrated her, but she IS definitely worth it; she truly is blessed!  So please view some of the images from the event, and if you see something you like, please don’t hesitate to leave a comment!

You can view a slideshow of event highlights here.

The Invitation:

The Invitation

The Note Cards that Guests Signed:

The Note Cards

“Thank You for Being a Friend” Song Lyrics that were handed out to Guests:

The Song Lyrics

Thank You Cards mailed after the event:

Thank You Cards

The Cake

The Surprise

The Hugs

Joking with Friends

Friends

Plotting

Sister Reflections

Reflections from a Son

The Guests

The Dancer

Dancing with Stars

Singing to the Birthday Girl

Childhood Friends

Doing the Cha Cha Slide

More Claps

Dancing Partners

More Dancing

The Soul Train Line

The 80's Dance

Laughing Couple

The Sisters

View Slideshow Here

Will You Answer the Call?

Earlier today, I attended the TOWN HALL Meeting on the TEACH Initiative with panelists US Department of Education Secretary Arne Duncan, Howard School of Education’s Dr. Fenwick, singer John Legend, DCPS Interim-Chancellor Kaya Henderson, and distinguished DCPS High School Teacher Ms. Angela Benjamin.  This event aimed to inspire, motivate, and encourage more of  the best and the brightest minorities to enter the teaching field as currently 91% of the teaching force is of Caucasian decent.  When I reflect on my own educational experience, I remember that it was only in my 6th grade English class that I ever had an African-American teacher (not including my graduate studies at Howard, which is a historically black university).  Secretary Duncan wants to ensure that the “Teacher workforce reflects the demographics of our students.”  This will be a task since only 3.5% of the nation’s teachers and black and Latino males.  I think that events like this will in fact recruit more college-educated individuals into the education field, if by no other means than by letting our “best and brightest” know that it’s ok and extremely beneficial for our communities for them to work in the classroom.

To drive this initiative, there are several financial incentives that the goverment is providing.  These include a $4,000 per year TEACH Grant towards undergraduate and graduate studies in exchange for a commitment to teach for 4 years in an 8-year period in a high needs field in a low-income school.  This may sound like a lot of stipulations, but it can provide up to $16,000 towards a person’s education.  Also, there is a program that promises complete loan forgiveness after 10 years of teaching.  School systems like DCPS in the Washington, DC boast that first-year teachers can make up to $73,000 with salary and bonuses, and I will admit that this exceeded my expectations.  Ultimately, school systems want to “celebrate and reward highly effective teachers,” according to Interim-Chancellor Henderson because as John Legend put it, “An effective teacher is the single most important factor in improving student performance.”

One of the biggest things that I took from this town hall meeting was that students (our children) need:

  • Adults that have the highest expectations of them
  • People who believe that no matter where they have come from, they can achieve

Students (our children) desire:

  • Teachers that inspire them
  • Teachers that know what they are doing
  • Teachers that come out of the textbook sometimes

But at the end of the day, “The most important thing that our best people can do is to TEACH,” according to Chancellor Henderson.

I have included some images from this event below.  For the record, I found out about this event at the last minute, so I did not have my trusty Nikon with me, and my cell phone had to work.  In this post, I am less concerned with quality of the picture as I am with the effectiveness and urgency of the message!

Event Collage

By the way, I was quoted in a post in response to this event, feel free to check it out on ESSENCE.

And the Winner is…

I wanted to make sure that I gave an update to my previous post, “It’s Just Politics (Part 1).”  I am happy to announce that Ms. Dar’shun Kendrick won a seat in the Georgia House of Representatives, District 94! It was during our freshman year at Oglethorpe University that I first met Ms. Kendrick, and she has remained focused, driven, determined, ambitious, and “about getting things done” ever since (I am confident she was this way before she entered college as well, but I did not know her then). I was not able to make it down to Atlanta to attend her Victory Party on Tuesday, but I truly am proud of my friend, and I wish her all the best as she continues in her political career!

Congratulations Ms. Kendrick

The Day the School Became a Museum…

If you’ve been following my blog lately, you are probably aware of my love for children and desire to teach.  To this end, I have been completing my practicum at a Northeast DC Public School.  Last week, the school had it’s annual “Museum” in which each classroom becomes a gallery with artifacts and students to explain each artifact.  Members of the community are invited as well as parents, and each student gets an opportunity to visit other classrooms to see what they have put together for the day.  The exhibits ranged from a fish fry to dancing mice (children dressed as mice, and not the actual rodents, thankfully) to interactive story books to shaving cream paintings.  In this post, I have included some of my favorite exhibits from the museum.

The Titanic

If you remember my I still have hope post, you will remember that I tried my hand at painting and came up with a decent representation of the Obama Hope campaign logo.  This time around, I flexed my drawing muscles… and again, I won’t quit my day job, but you can tell that I was drawing the Titanic!  Thankfully, children are not too hard to please when it comes to painting or drawing!

The Spring PlantsEver since I started planting seeds in planters in my home back in the spring, I have had this love for plants, seeds, and flowers.  There are many ways to incorporate plants into an elementary lesson from science (photosynthesis) to math (probability and measurement).  I will definitely use these in my classroom!

A Fish FryNow the “Fish Fry” will be a little harder for me to incorporate into the classroom – not because I cannot see a connection to the academic content, but because I want to teach my students about healthy nutritional choices.  Regardless, this teacher had her students’ attention (and appetites).

Scaling Fish

Most of the time when you see a real fish in a classroom, they are swimming around in a fish tank.  But what about teaching students how to remove scales from fish?  Real life skills!


Shaving Cream

One of my first experiences with shaving cream was when I was in elementary attending a friend’s birthday party/sleepover.  That night, we sprayed some shaving cream into the hands of the first girl who fell asleep, and then we tickled her feet with a feather.  To my credit, I did not come up with this idea, but I did not stop it!  Well, at this Elementary School’s Museum, one of the teachers found a better use for shaving cream.  In this picture, students were using the shaving cream to mix colors and create beautiful pictures.  It looked like a lot of fun, and it seemed easy enough to clean up!

Color Books

Don’t you remember those art projects we made in elementary and then gave to our parents with the hopes that they would stick them on the refrigerator?

Baking in Class

Now the only time I remember cooking in grade school was when I took a Home Ec. class in high school… At the school’s museum, students had the opportunity to work together to make muffins from a box.

The Muffins

What if I told you that these were the muffins the students made?  Would you believe me?  Well, I think these muffins were store-bought, but I’d imagine that the students’ muffins did not look to far away from these.

Let's Make Music Together

In the music room, students had the opportunity to play the keyboard, bongos, maracas, and tambourines to a song.

I’m Not Waiting for “Superman”

Recently, a documentary was released called “Waiting for Superman,” which looks into America’s education system – the very system that in several large cities across the US has under-delivered to many of her children.  In the movie, the director follows five children that are hoping to have a better future.  This movie not only made it to Oprah, but it has sparked many conversations from city to city as people try to figure out what they can do to help resolve this crisis.  In and of itself, this is great!… But I hope that weeks and months from now, peopled don’t lose their heart and passion to get involved with the youth.

Ever since I had Ms. Brown as my fifth grade teacher, I knew that I wanted to be a classroom teacher one day.  You see, it was Ms. Brown that saw my mathematical abilities and put me in the right places to excel in Math.  I never understood how or even when she saw my abilities, especially after previous teachers would label me as a “problem child” or someone that talks too much.  Nevertheless, Ms. Brown saw beyond all of that and pushed me far beyond where I was.  This simple act allowed me to take Calculus in high school, which in turn made college math a cake walk.  Ultimately desiring to go into the music industry as a producer, I felt my best academic course of action would be to pursue a degree in Business, but I still knew that eventually I’d go back to school for my Master’s in Education (after I’d released a few platinum records).  Well, many are the plans of a man’s heart, but only God’s purpose that prevails!  I never made it to the music industry, though I did complete the business degree.  Slowly, but surely, I moved in the directions of web development and photography after graduation, and everything was going well.

Then in 2008, I had a reality check!  There was not some life-altering tragedy that woke me up, but rather, it was CNN’s first airing of the Black in America series.  While I did not see this program as a representation of what it meant to be Black in America, I did see a disconnection between the reality I knew and lived and the reality that some of our youth experienced.  I saw teenagers choosing to drop out of school – an act that would disappoint the countless men and women from previous generations who stood while unforgiving water from fire hoses beat against their bodies until they could stand no more so that we could go to integrated schools and eat at tables with whites and other races.  I saw a problem, and I knew that I needed to do something about it.  So at that moment, I started researching schools with teacher preparation programs, and I vowed to stop my present course and get in the classroom so that I could show these youth the many possibilities that they have in life (dropping out is not one of them)!

Just as I said in my title, I’m not waiting for Superman because I realize that I am the change that the world needs!  And not just me, we all are the change that our world needs!  People continue to ask me if when I start teaching, if I will stop photographing.  My answer is always NO!  Part of what our youth need to see are entrepreneurs and real outlets for their talents!  Our youth need to see accountants and web developers.  They need to see physicians and politicians.  They need to see lawyers and engineers.  The youth need to see IT people and graphic artists.  They need to see interior designers and architects.  They need to see database administrators and accounts payable staff.  Our youth need to see all that’s out there; they need to see more options for their futures.  They need to see the real value of an education.   They need to see those who have made it, and they need you (and I) to show them how they can make it too!  The youth don’t need another hyped up Superman – all they need is all of us taking a hand and helping them come up!

I have included images below from a recent forum I went to on school reform at Bus Boys and Poets in Washington, DC.  There were legislative representatives on the panel and other noteworthy and concerned individuals in the audience.

Intro

Moderator

Listening

Speaking

In the Back

The walls

The Walls 2

The Walls 3

We must be the change we want to see

40 and Fabulous!!!!

Milestone birthdays… We all know about them.  We all know people that have had them.  We all either get excited or don’t look forward to our next one… Whatever the case, they are only really big because we make them that way.  What do I mean by that?  Well, who said that 16 was a big deal?  I am guessing it was the kid who couldn’t wait until they were 16 so that they could officially drive.  Who made 21 a big deal?  It was probably the young person that was looking forward to legally partaking in some of those forbidden “spirits.”  Who made 30 a big deal?  Now that I don’t know, but I am guessing that after the age of 25, we just started getting excited about anything that ended with a “0.”

Regardless of what it takes to make a person celebrate another year, the celebration itself is a beautiful thing.  You see, life – it’s not promised, and it’s surely not without issues or problems.  But when you have the opportunity to see another year, another year that God has carried you through, it’s a reason to celebrate!  With the economy where it is, wars, natural disasters, man-made disasters, car accidents, etc, I am glad to see that we live in a world of survivors and people that thrive! I celebrate life!  I celebrate age!  I even celebrate gray hair because I read somewhere that it was a person’s wisdom!

So please allow me to share with you images from one of my aunt’s recent birthday celebrations!  A few weeks ago, we went to the National Harbor in DC, and ate at the Gaylord Hotel, stopped in Cake Love for desserts, and then went to Charming Charlie’s for a little shopping.  By the way, if I hadn’t given this post such a descriptive title, I don’t think you would have guessed my aunt’s age… I’ll just say, we have some really good genes! (Thank you Lord!)

By now, you all know my new closing statement:  If you see something you like, please don’t hesitate to leave a comment!  I love the feedback!

Auntie

Laughing with the Ladies

Attentive

Reflective

Smiling

Looking Back

Cake Love

Nothing is Fat Free

My Downfall Cake

Charming Charlies

The Purse

Fabulous